Do You Stay or Do You Go?
Today we are going to discuss personal changes. Any change can be trying, but PERSONAL changes are usually met with resistance, even if we long for the change.
Is it time to leave that job? Or move house or leave a stale relationship? Or could it be that its time for all of the above? If you take classes with me then you know that all the moaning, groaning, bitching and complaining are not helping at all. You are manifesting more struggle. Do you find yourself repeating how you “don’t want to really leave” or “aren’t ready” or “circumstances aren’t right”? You know this doesn’t help a bit. You are caught in circular thinking and you may be manifesting more angst for yourself. What to do? Remember that no action is just as much a choice as choosing to leave. Even though you are not making a choice you are actually making the choice to stay. If you are not happy, fulfilled, or growing in your current circumstances, then the feelings will probably not go away. Just so, every choice comes with consequences. Bliss Challenge: You can ask yourself, “What small change can I take right now to move me forward towards my goal?” *Note your goal is of course living your dream life, right? If you do not have a goal then you probably need to start there. What do you actually want and why? You might want to read this post for another approach on understanding what you really desire and why. Now ask yourself the question and then listen for the answer. Be quite and just listen. Your soul knows what you need, but you just have to listen. Your soul will always be kind, because you are kind. If you hear something sarcastic or unkind, chances are you are hearing your ego, not your soul. Brush that away and ask again. Once you get the answer its time to make a plan. Now if you are someone who is brilliant at helping others, but may not always have follow through on your own tasks, don’t feel alone. I can help you develop a plan of action and tiny steps to move you closer to your dream. Then soon you will be making GIANT leaps forward. You can do it! You can make those changes and build your dream life! Ready to book one on one session? Email me today! Love and Light, Sarah Relationships - Real-Relationships should not be difficult.
Are you having a difficult time in your relationships? Let's start at the beginning: If someone wants you to be in their life, then they make room for you. Simple, right? As easy to understand as that is, sometimes we forget the basics.
So, you also should never feel like you are only there as a second option for someone else. Stressing out over vague messages or crypt texts, is not clear communication. If you are doing this (fighting your way into someone's life) or stressing out deciphering messages for deeper meaning; then quit. This is not how healthy, adult relationships are run. This is you getting caught up in drama - building, wishing and fabricating something that isn't real or worth your time. You should never have to "guess" if someone is into you. If someone likes you, they will make time for you in their lives. They will find a way to spend time with you, include you and make you feel special not second choice. If they do not make time to get to know you, or constantly cancel on you; it a pretty sure sign that they are either not into you or are not at a point in their lives where they can have a relationship. This goes for any gender, friendship, partnership or romantic liaison. Stop wasting your time. There are people right now searching for YOU! They want a positive, healthy relationship with you. You just have to be open to finding them and stop settling for less than you deserve. If you want to work on relationship skills or discuss what went wrong in your last relationship I have a few open slots this upcoming month. Sign up for a free consultation now. Love and Light, Sarah File under: #Love #Relationships #SelfLove #Healing #Support #Couple #LIfe #SpiritualCoaching What you plant, you grow.
Do you garden? Even if you have never planted anything in your life you can understand the basic concept, yeah? What seed you plant and water you grow. Pretty straight forward. It works the same way with us, too. What seed we plant inside of us and water grows too. What seeds are you planting? Confidence, wisdom, self love? How about compassion, strength or courage? You might also be planting seeds of fear, doubt, blame and anger. Within each of us all these seeds exist, the idea is to only tend the seeds that we want to see flourish and bloom like healthy flowers in a well maintained garden. Example: Have you ever encountered an angry, bitter person? One that sees everything as negative and wrong? This person has been tending to those seeds and ignoring the seeds of compassion and love. It is important to understand right now, WE chose which seeds to tend. Our thoughts and our actions shape our internal “garden”. When we tend the seeds of anger and bitterness we ignore the seeds of compassion and love. If we continue over time to tend to only those seeds then we shape our own identity to conform to those thoughts. We become negative, bitter and filled with hate. Also whatever seed we tend the most, we will have a tendency to bring out in others as well. Remember like attracts like. How often do you see love and hate having coffee together? Not every often, do you? Usually you with either witness two happy people together or two bitter, sullen people together. Now there are exceptions to this rule, but for the most part we tend to gravitate to the people we have the most in common with. People who share our view of the world, yeah? Think about how you see the world and the experiences you are currently having. Are they concurrent? Are your experiences confirming what you believe? How about the people around you, are they tending the seeds you wish to flourish in your own inner garden? Bliss Challenge: In your journal describe the 5 people you spend the most time with. What type of people are they and what types of internal seeds are they tending. Do they match the seeds you are tending? Or are they the seeds you wish to tend? If not, what are the seeds you wish to cultivate? List them. Next Step: What changes do you need to make? It is our own personal responsibility to tend these seeds. It has nothing to do with how we were raised, or what life experiences we have had. We make the choice every day on how our internal garden should grow. If you need help weeding and planting new seeds I am here to help you. Love and Light, Sarah File under: #Bliss #Challenges #SelfLove #Growth #LIfe #LOA #Relationships But you knew that didn't you?
In fact, that's why you are here. You are tired of feeling like you do and are ready to make a BIG CHANGE. I will assist you and together we will make YOU THE PROJECT. Book your initial and Free 30 minute session and mention that you are THE PROJECT and I will double the offer and give you either 2 free 30 minute sessions or 1 hour long session FOR FREE! That a $250USD savings because I want you to see how much better life can be. But don't wait. This offer expires Jan 23, 2106. Book the free session and use them the following week or as time allows, up to 3 months in the future. But make the appointment today before this offer expires. I look forward to working with you and seeing the amazing things that are about to happen. Sarah Thomas RRMS, CEO of Bliss To be successful is never just by chance, it takes hard work, goals and dedication, It also takes being surrounded by good, positive people than both encourage you and share their experiences with you,
Want to be Successful? Find a mentor and hire a coach. I have a handful of free, 30 minute slots in the coming week carved out, if you want to discuss what a difference a coach with a proven business experience can do for your success story. Email me or my assistant for a slot today. Sarah Clients often ask me to help them reach their goals. One great way to begin this journey is with a Vision Board. Vision boards are a great manifesting tool, but very often when people sit down to create the board they are completely and totally overwhelmed. What do you really want? If you could have the life of your dreams what would it be?
Today List five goals you wish to accomplish in 2016. Just five. Think about it, they can be personal goals or things you wish to purchase or changes you wish to make. Let yourself dream. Remember the universe doesn't care what you are manifesting, it’s no difference in asking for an ice cream cone or a new automobile, its all just energy. We are the ones who limit with our thoughts. Be as specific as possible. For example, “I wish to be a junior dress size 5.” Is a better goal than I want to loose weight. Because if you can “loose” something, it can be found and returned to you later. Focus on the positive, and be vigilant in watching what you are saying about yourself. Another example: “My goal is to move into a new home in 2016.” Be more specific “My goal is to move into a lovely, modern home in *Insert city name* that I can afford in 2016. This new home is a wonderful and healthy place to live. The new home meets and exceeds all my families needs.” See the difference? No Negative Talk! Your job is to just to allow yourself to wish with no negative talk or limiting beliefs. Can't get motivated? This is YOUR LIFE we are speaking about. What could be more important? Complete this simple goal setting challenge today. Do not put it off and you will be well on your way to a more Blissful life. Want more? Set up an appointment or a free consultation and lets discuss manifesting and the Law of Attraction today. Let's work together and see how we can put it to work for you. Happy Manifesting! Sarah (c)2016 Sarah Parker Thomas #Manifesting #LOA #Goals |
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