Personal Relationships

Relationships - Real-Relationships should not be difficult.

Are you having a difficult time in your relationships?
Let's start at the beginning: If someone wants you to be in their life, then they make room for you. Simple, right? As easy to understand as that is, sometimes we forget the basics.

• You should not have to fight your way into someones life.
• You should never feel like you were a second option.
• You Should have clear lines of communication.
• The relationship should be positive for all parties involved.

 
So, you also should never feel like you are only there as a second option for someone else. Stressing out over vague messages or crypt texts, is not clear communication.  If you are doing this (fighting your way into someone's life) or stressing out deciphering messages for deeper meaning; then quit. This is not how healthy, adult relationships are run. This is you getting caught up in drama - building, wishing and fabricating something that isn't real or worth your time. 

You should never have to "guess" if someone is into you. If someone likes you, they will make time for you in their lives. They will find a way to spend time with you, include you and make you feel special not second choice.  If they do not make time to get to know you, or constantly cancel on you; it a pretty sure sign that they are either not into you or are not at a point in their lives where they can have a relationship.  This goes for any gender, friendship, partnership or romantic liaison.

Stop wasting your time. There are people right now searching for YOU! They  want  a positive, healthy relationship with you. You just have to be open to finding them and stop settling for less than you deserve.

If you want to work on relationship skills or discuss what went wrong in your last relationship I have a few open slots this upcoming month. Sign up for a free consultation now.

Love and Light,
Sarah

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