Do You Stay or Do You Go?

Do You Stay or Do You Go?
Today we are going to discuss personal changes. Any change can be trying, but PERSONAL changes are usually met with resistance, even if we long for the change.

• How do you know its time to pack it in?  
  
• What do you except and when should you just cut and run? 
  
• When is ‘enough is enough’ true?
  
• Will it change for the better on it’s own?

Is it time to leave that job? Or move house or leave a stale relationship? Or could it be that its time for all of the above? 

If you take classes with me then you know that all the moaning, groaning, bitching and complaining are not helping at all. You are manifesting more struggle. Do you find yourself repeating how you “don’t want to really leave” or “aren’t ready”  or “circumstances aren’t right”? You know this doesn’t help a bit. You are caught in circular thinking and you may be manifesting more angst for yourself.

What to do?
Remember that no action is just as much a choice as choosing to leave. Even though you are not making a choice you are actually making the choice to stay. If you are not happy, fulfilled, or growing in your current circumstances, then the feelings will probably not go away.  Just so, every choice comes with consequences.  

Bliss Challenge:
You can ask yourself, “What small change can I take right now to move me forward towards my goal?”  *Note your goal is of course living your dream life, right? If you do not have a goal then you probably need to start there. What do you actually want and why? You might want to read this post for another approach on understanding what you really desire and why.

Now ask yourself the question and then listen for the answer. Be quite and just listen. Your soul knows what you need, but you just have to listen. Your soul will always be kind, because you are kind. If you hear something sarcastic or unkind, chances are you are hearing your ego, not your soul. Brush that away and ask again.

Once you get the answer its time to make a plan. Now if you are someone who  is brilliant at helping others, but may not always have follow through on your own tasks, don’t feel alone. I can help you develop a plan of action and tiny steps to move you closer to your dream. Then soon you will be making GIANT leaps forward. You can do it! You can make those changes and build your dream life!
Ready to book one on one session? Email me today!

Love and Light,
Sarah