"Bad energy," "negative energy," or bad vibes are used universally to describe people or situations that make us feel apprehensive, uncomfortable, or anxious. But what does that mean? Very few people can see energy, but almost all of us can feel or sense it on some level. Everything around us is made of energy; the earth, the cosmos, and our bodies are all made of energy. This energy is in flux all the time; it is constantly moving and shifting. We are impacted by what we consume; eat, drink, watch, and engage in, which also happens to the people around us. This energy is flowing around us constantly, through our homes, influencing the people we spend time with, coating our possessions, affecting our health, and the list goes on and on. So when you hear someone talking about a "vibe," they are speaking about a feeling. For example, you might go to the market, and as you are paying for your purchase, you interact with a person and get an odd vibe from them, or you might also really connect with someone and feel a good vibe from them like a kindred soul, someone you resonate with and want to get to know. This feeling isn't based on appearance but on the person's energy. Have you ever gone to a meeting or to visit a friend and walked into a room and felt the energy is "off"? People's moods can have an instant effect on the whole vibe of a room. The vibration felt, bad or good, can then influence your interaction and even your mood. (This is especially true for empaths.) How To Know If Your House Has Negative Energy Ideally, your home is a peaceful sanctuary for you and your family. It should be your safe place: a place to relax and unwind and a place to restore your energy. Your home should be both a reflection of yourself as well a place to nurture your spirit. But if your house doesn't feel that way, it might signal you need to work on clearing the stagnant energy before it becomes harmful. Signs the energy is negative include: Constantly arguing, complaining, criticizing, or feel trapped when you are home. Feeling sad, anxious, or unsafe at home are also signs the vibe is out of balance. Unhealthy relationships under your roof are also an indication that the energy is off. Too much clutter, trash, or chaos can also lead to negative energy. An area where people are constantly ill, plants won't grow, pets run away, or people don't like to spend time is also a sign of negative energy.
Don't get me wrong; everyone can have off days or days things don't work out. I'm talking about more bad days than good. It's essential to understand this difference and not jump to conclusions. If you need some assistance clearing stuck energy or suspect your energy has become off or even harmful, I'm here to help. Sarah Are you doing everything you are supposed to and still struggling? Happiness, healthy relationships, a satisfying career, and wealth all seem out of your control? Maybe you are even asking yourself why you're not getting ahead? Are you having difficulty finding opportunities, or could it be you're not grabbing the chances when they come to you? I work with clients that struggle with these same issues, and the most common reason people fail is that they're engaging in self-defeating behaviors. Could this be a problem for you too? If you're not finding happiness, engaging in healthy relationships, or building a satisfying career, you might want to consider whether or not you've become your own worst enemy. Often we feel like we have no control over our lives, but in fact, you could be trapped in a self-defeating cycle that keeps you miserable. How can you tell? Look for these five signs:
You Use the Emergency Exit Or the "nothing is ever finished" cycle. Do you tend to come close to completing a project only to stop at the last minute? When you feel the need to stop, ask yourself why? Could it be you're afraid to take the next step? Ask yourself what you are worried about? Are you afraid of failure or success? And know that you are not alone; most people are fearful of moving forward and taking chances. For some folks, this is why we sabotage relationships the moment we start to feel close to them or deeply connect with another person. It's also why we throw a monkey wrench in the works when we hear we're being considered for promotion. Instead, complete your project/task before moving on to something else. Procrastination Can't ever seem to get anything done? Deadlines come and go, and still, you can't seem to get motivated? It could mean you don't feel you have the skills you need to finish the task. When we don't feel confident in our abilities, it's natural to put things off, hoping that we will finish them later. The problem is this clarity rarely comes. In truth, we only wind up making ourselves feel worse by missing deadlines. Instead, ask for help. You Trust Other People More Than You Trust Yourself It's essential to ask for help, seek advice, and receive feedback, but you also need to trust your instincts. When we value other's people opinions over our own, to our detriment, we are self-sabotaging. (This is especially true if you have "friendly enemies" in your circle.) If you are allowing other people's opinions to dictate your life, then you are giving away your power and allowing them to determine your life. Instead, trust your institution. You're Not Focused On the Right Thing Are you easily distracted? If you're worried about one project's outcome, it's not uncommon to throw yourself into another. We do this to take our minds off of what worries us. But unfortunately, it also distracts us from what needs to be our primary focus. I see people getting lost in social media and crafting the best business post ever but, sadly, not taking the time to create a product to sell. Instead, look at the big picture and focus on what's important. Negative Self-Talk Are you constantly criticizing yourself or using negative self-talk to keep yourself from succeeding? Negative self-talk can stop you from asking someone out on a date, prevent you from sending your resume off for your dream job, or hurt you in so many other ways. Instead, be your own personal cheerleader and practice positive affirmations. All of these behaviors can have a seriously detrimental effect on your life. It may take some time to change these behaviors, but working together, I can help you take back control of your life and end self-sabotage. SHARE/COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE I hope you enjoyed this article. Would you please leave a comment or share this to help someone? Is it time for you to pivot? Change is complex, but you don't have to walk that path alone. Subscribe to my newsletter to get inspired and take action towards becoming a better you. Be of Service
If you’re on the Spiritual Path, you’ve probably already heard the message of “service.” What it means is the best work is when we’re of service to others. Instead of doing something for us, for a reward, or to gain something. Being of service to something, a person, a group, a community, a cause, or a belief means that you’ve chosen to engage without expectation of reciprocation. The Virgo energy right now is all about being of service, so use this week to consider whether you’re of service to others and maybe what you could do better. Check in with your Guides, journal about it, and take time to think it over. Use your gifts (no matter what they are) to be of service and positively impact the world! Reiki Blessings, Sarah In the middle of a spiritual test?
When you think you can't go on When too much is happening When you feel so NOT ready That's it. It's time to heal yourself… Make yourself the focus. Stop "getting by to get by" and focus on personal living. You are in the present You stop the distractions and the self-loathing. You become your focus, not an afterthought. And realize you are in the middle of a Spiritual awakening. Let go of the past And find the will to go on, Move forward with compassion. You expand who you are on all levels. Know that you will find the power to do whatever you need to do The power is there, It's always been there, but you never accepted it. You were tricked into not believing you were not worthy Or that somehow you had to "acquire" what you already possess. You were manipulated to feel small, but it was never true. Every time you gave up, a new door opened. The process began again. But now, you must grab your power. No one can give it to you; you must own it. You are the artist of this dream The creator of your life, and now you must Pick up the brush and begin to create your masterpiece. You must release the illusion of being alone, Of being separate or Being small. Of being not enough. You are part of the Universe. Part of the Collective Part of Source energy. And You are FUCKING amazing. S- When I first began coaching, I had no idea the impact it would have. It was a natural progression from treating people on the Reiki table to offering ongoing support. Clients immediately felt better after a session and wanted to know what else they could do to take control of their health and well-being. As I began listing suggestions, it soon became clear they needed ongoing assistance and guidance. After all, there is an immense body of information in the self-help world, but what actually works? And who is going to help you stay accountable?
I get letters and message like this all the time: "Thank you for changing my life, Sarah! I was totally stuck, unhappy, and full of self-doubt. I wasn't moving forward and felt like giving up. You helped me go from miserable to living a life I was afraid to even dream of; it all seemed so impossible! You and your program changed my life!" Christina B. I'm sharing this with you because I am opening up a new group coaching program in June. It is eight weeks' worth of coaching for a fraction of what one-on-one sessions cost. I am doing this because I want to help people experience what Christina did. I want you to thrive and get "unstuck." I want you to feel good again and enjoy life. This eight-week program will include weekly live group calls with me, audios, recorded meditations, videos, and homework. We will start with the basics, how you can easily navigate a spiritual awakening, lead a more authentic life (and happy life), and from their work towards you finding your life's purpose. If you have ever considered working with me, this will be a great introduction. The course is eight weeks long, with the information available to you for one full year so that you can go at your own pace with no extra added stress. The group will be small to make sure everyone is heard. I will break down the information into easy-to-digest bites; this will be a safe zone to learn and grow, and you will be surrounded by like-minded people who will add to the group dynamics. I know you can get past what's holding you back and live an inspiring life! If you want my help, you need to register for this course now. (It will sell out.) Go here to get registered: Group Coaching I look forward to working with you. Together we can change not only your life but the world! Speak soon, Sarah PS: This in offered through our sister site Serenity Reiki Clinic at a Huge savings, Don't miss it! Worldwide, 50 million people are living with Alzheimer's and other dementias.
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