Even though you have a HUGE heart and want to help everyone you meet, that doesn't mean you belong in every dysfunctional relationship that comes your way.
If someone isn't right for you, no amount of trying, praying, begging, or wishing can change that. Sometimes you just have to walk away.
Could you be an empath or a highly sensitive person?
Has anyone ever told you that you are too sensitive or too emotional? Do you feel drained when you spend time around certain folks? Do you seem to experience life differently from other people?
You could very well be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) or an Empath. Contact me for a free one-on-one evaluation today to find out.
Day 1 of August Birthday Sale!
Today we celebrate with an offer from the SPT wellness coaching site. Are you ready to feel better? Do you feel overwhelmed with all the contradictory information on line? If you are looking for a deeper understanding of wellness, nutrition and healing, broken down in an easy to understand format we have you covered! Sarah offers a private VIP Library of 100s of reports, recipes, videos, e-books and articles on health and wellness to her coaching clients, but today you can grab this MEGA resource for yourself without spending thousands of dollars!
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When you begin healing no one is cheering you on, instead people could be asking what wrong with you?! Common complaints you may hear are: “Why are you suddenly acting different?” “Why are you saying, "No" all of the sudden?” “Who do you think you are?”
Why do people respond like this? Because you are acting differently You are recognizing you time matters. You are beginning to make decisions based on your mental health. You are beginning to value your time and resources. You are reclaiming yourself.
During this process you probably don’t have anyone cheering you on. (More than likely just the opposite, actually.) BUT be your own cheerleader. Don’t stop the work and don’t stop the self-care.
I’m proud of you, stick with it.
Trying to heal after a leaving a narcissist relationship?
Healing begins when you change the narrative… change the story that is floating in your head and you change everything!
Don’t believe that you are doomed to years of suffering because you are not… and I don’t care what response you get from the “narcissist experts” you follow online. You can get over this and quicker than you may think, but you need to commit to your own healing. NOW!
If you put as much thought and effort into yourself as you do your ex, think about how far you can get? Your ex doesn’t deserve your love, care or attention… you do.
When you are ready to heal and be done with this trauma for good, I’m here for you.
Despite the large collection of empath resources available to us-including online coaches, therapies, books, websites, courses, & workshops, all aimed at empowering the HSP and empath, our plight remains an ongoing struggle. Many of the customary strategies don’t work because everyone is different. Lets discuss your unique situation and build a plan around it and not use the "cookie cutter" approach.
Contact me today for more information.
I know you have heard this before, but I’m gong to say it again; it is important that you avoid toxic people. I know you want to help everyone and you often see the best in people, but this is a serious warning. It’s not your job to fix, mend or heal everyone that crosses your path. You must set clear boundaries or these people will steal your energy, mess with your mental health and destroy your dreams.
In my new Empowered Empath course we take a long look at these types of people, set clear boundaries and work on healing the hurt toxic people have inflicted. If you would like to be on the waiting list for this massive course, sign up here. You can also read more about the course here.
In todays busy and stressful society most of us are overwhelmed and feel burned out. This is magnified when you are an empath. This can put a strain on your relationships, your career and of course your health. But the good news is there are few a simple tweaks you can put into your schedule that will make a huge impact on your stress levels. In this post I will share a few simple changes you can begin implementing today to bring more calmness and peace into your life.
Begin by recognizing there is a problem.
Empaths don’t just sympathize or empathize with other people, they understand deeply what it is like for another person. Walk a miles in my shoes? Thats a given as an empath, when an empath connects with another person they begin to take on their emotions, fears and problems. This can be overwhelming! Don’t wait till you collapse in bed before you make a change. Begin today by scheduling downtime now. Set aside several hours each week to be alone. Meditate, read or just sit without any distractions or responsibilities. If there is a stressful family event coming up it’s okay if you bow out or at least don’t do as much as normal. You deserve time off too. Read on to learn some simple tips you can begin incorporating into you life today to ease the stress.
Click here to read more about empaths and their abilities, gifts and struggles.
Move Your Body
When your inbox number is higher than your step counter there is a problem. It happens, but rather than scolding yourself get up. Walk around your work area, go for a walk at lunch. Take the stairs instead of the evaluator. The more you move the happier your body will be and the stuck, stressful energy will move off you too!
Spend Time By Water
Many people, especially Empaths, find bodies of water calming, and relaxing. Most Empaths and HSP are drawn to oceans, rivers, and lakes especially in times of high stress. If you are feeling overwhelmed, even just sitting quietly for an hour by a body of water or pool can be a great help.
Stop the Negative Self-Talk
As an empath it is easy to become overwhelmed by everyone around you. One way to combat this is positive self talk. Take a moment and write out what you are saying to yourself, Is it positive and helpful or is it cruel and hateful? Would you say this to someone you loved? If not, make it a priority to stop the negative talk. With time and practice you can replace this negative dialogue with positive, loving words. Affirmations, meditation and self care can be a big help in ending negative self talk. Check these videos for affirmations you can easily work into your morning routine.
Skip the Family Drama
If you are feeling drained, overwhelmed or stressed out by your extended family you may need to step away for a break. It's not easy but sometimes we have to for our own peace of mind. Creating boundaries can also help you to stay calmer. Remember you are in control of your life and how much of it you give to others. If you are feeling tired, stressed or overwhelmed it is okay to say, “No” to family functions, holiday events and other celebrations for you own heath.
You have the right to limit your exposure to toxic situation and people. It is up to you to build in alone time and recognize when you are at your limit. Empaths are kind caring people who do so much good in the world, but this cannot happen when they are stressed out and overwhelmed. Decide today to begin taking better care of yourself.
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You can also book a empath discovery session here. Where we can design a personalized plan to help you eliminate the stressor from your life and build in more happiness and joy.
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“If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?”
― Maya Angelou
"Every day is a new beginning, choose wisely."
-Sarah Parker Thomas
“We are all a work in progress.
And the possibilities are endless.”
Sarah Parker Thomas