So how's life?
I'm glad you are here. Today I want to talk about relationships and few simple tips to make them more fulfilling.
It's such a charged word, isn't it? Relationship - Romance, affair, connection, partnership, whatever you call it, it evokes strong feelings and responses. We invest so much in our personal relationships, but sometimes we forget the basic, fundamental, ground rules. I mean that we need to be present, be honest and respectful.
If you are just starting out or already in a long term relationship, I have a few tips that may help your connection grow and blossom. If you are looking for someone and need help with the maze of online dating I have a special package located here. (Limited time only - so enroll now!)
Let's take it from the beginning, you met someone you like and are now dating. Below are five incredibly easy, yet valuable tips to ensure you and your partner get the most out of your time together.
All those tips sound so easy, don't they? For instance, of course you're going to be honest, right? But this includes those little "white lies" people often tell, such as, "I love camping" when in fact they have never been or "I adore football!" When in fact they can't stand the sport. Start from the beginning being honest. Be polite, but let your date know that you have never been camping. If you are open to trying it, tell them, if not also include that. Saying, "I don't think it would suit me." Now can save a lot of drama and unhappiness later. So when in doubt, always be honest.
Also before you begin a new relationship free yourself and heal from your past relationships. If you do not think its possible at this point, then wait to start dating. It's not fair to your partner or yourself to carry around past lovers baggage and emotional pain.
While being honest, don't forget to be yourself. How can you get an idea if you are a good match if you are pretending to be something or someone else? Be honest about what you like and don't like and always be yourself.
While taking the time to be honest, don't forget to show respect to your partner. Respect means that while you do not have to agree on everything, your opinion is not superior and your partners opinion MATTERS. Try to respect all people and especially your partner. As a side note, if you are dating someone you do not respect, end the relationship. We will speak more about that next week.
One of the most precious commodities we possess is time. Your time is very important, but so is your partners. Are you making time in your busy day to text? Leave notes at home? Carving out time for a "date night"? It is very important to any relationship, no matter how mature or how fresh for the participants to value and make time for each other. If you aren't making it a priority to make time for each other, start today.
If you want to more information on relationships and dating, look here and here, plus be sure to read the blog every Friday for more tips.
To further discuss these tips or if you have specific questions about relationships or dating, why not book a free, introductory session? I have two slots available in September, but you had better book fast.
I look forward to speaking with you!
File under: #Relationships #Dating #Honesty #Respect #Truth #Love #Couples #Support
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As you know I'm a guest speaker on the International Healing Summit in October. And now they have asked me to co-host the Live Launch party! WooHoo! This will be a fun, free online event Oct 1, 2016.
You guys know I like to laugh and party so it will not be boring! I'm gonna do giveways, tell stories, and hang out with you live on-line.
This will be a very FUN EVENT!
I'm going to talk about my story and my co-hosts story of healing. We are going to give away a signed copy of my newest book and I will do a LIVE Guided Meditation with you + there are other fun things planned! (Surprises I'm not allowed to list just yet...shhhh)
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I look forward to seeing you there!
How have you been? Things are great here.
Did you know every day I pull a random card on Snapchat? I hold a mini class and offer self love and guidance on the theme of the card. Want to join me? Find me on Snapchat at: Sarahpthomas
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Love and Light,
How's your love life?
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Love could be right around the corner...
Today's card of the day on Snapchat was (See above) "Follow your Dreams".
It's a pretty card and seems like the simplest of ideas, right? Except that for most of us it isn't. We are assaulted throughout the day with things vying for our attention. The TV, the internet, co workers, friends, family, partners, radio, advertisements, and the list goes on and on. So with all of this constant chaos it is easy to actually loose track of what makes you happy and what you dream of doing.
I'm going to share a Bliss technique for getting back in touch with your Higher Self and the keeper of your dreams. This technique has been helpful for my coaching clients and I think it will help you, too.
Start by finding a quiet place to meditate for five minutes. Clear your mind or listen to a guided meditation (I have one here that is only 2 minutes long). Once you have calmed your mind and are feeling less stressed ask yourself, "What do I truly desire?" and "What is important to me?" Listen, really listen. You might be surprised at what pops into your mind. It could be something like: My children, my partner, moving, work, starting a new career, painting, peace of mind, being healthy, music, being free, traveling, a new car, gardening, etc. There is no judgement.
Immediately write down the top five things that were given to you. Don't worry if you didn't hear five, or had many more. We are going to focus on five to begin this shift.
Now take a look at your daily schedule, does it contain any of these things? No, or perhaps not all five? Then it is time to rearrange your schedule to incorporate all FIVE of these desires into your every day life.
As an example: you may want to travel and it may not be possible to travel every day, but you can start planning a trip and researching your destination, setting a budget and reading reviews or working out a schedule for small day trips, etc. Or it could be that you want to learn a new piece of music, start by scheuling time in daily to pratice.
No matter how busy you are you can find a bit of time for these things. If you do not then they will become lost in the shuffle of day to day life, other people's agendas and Netflix weekends. (You know I'm right.)
What we focus on we become. Life is lived in tiny moments, day by day, with no promise of tomorrow. We have a tendency to not want to schedule our "fun" because somewhere deep down we don't think it is important. But guess what? Science has shown it is important for both your mental and physical health. Following your dreams and desires is the best way to live a fulfilling life.
Make an effort TODAY to begin this practice and let me know how you feel after a week. What is it like making time for your dreams? Are you less stressed? Sleeping better? Feeling happy? What obstacles did you run into? I'd love to hear your experience.
I know if you can incorporate your dreams into your life, you will be moving closer to a fulfilling and overall happier existents.
Love and Light,
"My zone of genius is around mentoring, guiding and coaching inspired, creative, conscious and spiritual entrepreneurs and individuals to connect with their deepest desires and values so they can rise with grace. I believe in treating the "whole person" and with simple energetic shifts they can reach their highest potential and serve from a place of inner peace and fulfillment."
“If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?”
― Maya Angelou
"Every day is a new beginning, choose wisely."
-Sarah Parker Thomas
“We are all a work in progress.
And the possibilities are endless.”
Sarah Parker Thomas